Friday, March 5, 2010

A season of Instability

To everything there is a season, and a time for every purpose under the heaven. (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

Everything in life moves through seasons, seasons are periods characterized by particular conditions. Whether the condition is good or bad it could leave lasting effects in your life. Marriages can experience seasons of difficulties, such as illness, financial struggles, death, work, children,etc.... When sudden distress raises it untimely head, it can knock the marriage out of sync, which can cause the marriage to be a little unstable. When this happens there is a chance that the marriage may not recover back to it's original state. The question that faces many is while in the season of instability does one give up or do they stay and rebuilt. The first thing we would suggest is never make sudden descisions while things are unstable. After traumatic accidents the first instructions is to stabilize the patient, because in order for proper healing there always needs to be a stabilization. Sometimes one needs to get to the place of steadiness just to think, one can not make wise decsions in an unstable environment.

Things to consider when your world is turned upside down:


  1.  One must get out of the way: that is get your hands out of the situation and let God handle it. Old saying too many hands in the pot can spoil the soup.

  2. Find shelter- remember (he that dwells in the secret place of the Most High God shall abide under the Shadow of the Almighty). Find your peace and stay there.

  3.  Be still: (Know that He is God), sudden moves can cause an unstable environment to become a potentially hazzard one.



Remember It's only a season, and seasons come and go.  Never make decisions in the middle of instabililty.

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