When was the last time a compliment so gently rolled off your tongue and entered the ear-gate of your spouse? How about the last time your extremities smoothly swept across the brow of their eye, then journeyed down the silhouette of their face? What about the last time that time was so spontaneous that your night ended in a peaceful bliss of love?
If your answer to one or more of these questions causes you to ponder, then your marriage could be experiencing “backups”. Our definition of “backups” is accumulation of frustration due to stoppage which can cause overwhelming pressure that leads to damage. The one time love language shared between the two can easily become a fading memory of the past. Life itself can be the culprit of these “backups”; work, school, children, etc…, but are these reasons enough to allow the “backups” continue.
Many may have entered the covenant of marriage years ago, and may have been enduring seasons of “backups” until they have become so immune that the gentlest of spousal touch causes reactions of strife. To others this is a wakeup call before the auto recovery system of the marriage malfunctions completely.
This is the season to reverse the negative “backup” to a positive “backup” and devise a plan to recapture what is fading or has already disappeared. It’s not too late to date, laugh, and love again!
The outside pressures of life are overwhelming, both the husband and the wife can use a break to reinforce the longevity of the marriage. Your spouse needs your personal time and endorsements to survive in a world filled with struggle, pain, and disappointments. A gentle answer, a soft touch, a spontaneous gesture may just be what is needed to relieve the pressure!
Note this, you only receive what you choose to give, give more and you’ll reap more! Mark this day as a day of giving….now watch what this day will bring.
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